Most books on this topic either shame or celebrate. These do neither.
Forty-six years of pastoral work, written down, for the reader who’s done with surface-level answers.
Naked Surrender
Coming Home to Our True Sexuality
Who it’s for
Anyone who wants to be free, and stay free.
The wrestler ready for depth. The leader walking with someone in healing. The spouse who needs a framework, not just encouragement.
What it is
Andrew walked the long road of sexual brokenness himself. He writes from inside that experience, not above it.
The argument of this book: Jesus sees the body as a temple. Whatever has happened in it, whatever you’ve done or what’s been done to you, he can reclaim it. Whole. Healed. His.
That’s not a slogan. Andrew builds the pastoral case for how that actually happens: through the cross, through community, through the body of Christ doing what no program can do alone.
The one to give someone who’s ready to stop managing it and start healing.
Rediscovering Our Lost Fullness
A Practical Guide to Living a Healthy and Holy Sexuality
Who it’s for
Anyone who wants more than rules.
The reader who suspects there’s a deeper vision of sexuality than what culture offers, and hasn’t found it explained well yet.
What it is
Andrew writes from inside the experience. Same-sex desires. Sexual brokenness. The slow, non-linear work of becoming whole. Then forty-six years of walking others through the same road.
This book is practical. It doesn’t just name what healthy sexuality looks like. It shows how people actually get there. Real stories. Real struggles. Real ground taken.
The argument underneath it all: you were made for more than managing this. Wholeness isn’t a destination you earn. It’s a capacity you recover, and other people have recovered it.
The one for the reader ready to go deeper than willpower.
Strength in Weakness
Healing Sexual and Relational Brokenness
Who it’s for
Men undermined by silence, pornography, fear of failure, or broken relationships with women.
Women lost in relationships, wounded by betrayal, paralyzed by self-hatred.
Anyone who has hit the wall and stopped pretending they haven’t.
What it is
Andrew doesn’t write around weakness. He writes through it.
His argument: weakness isn’t the obstacle to healing. It’s the threshold. The place where, if you stop performing and start being honest, God can actually meet you.
He has walked thousands of others through it. This book carries those stories (despair, hope, and change that held) alongside the foundations that made the change possible.
The cross is the answer Andrew keeps returning to. Not as a cliché. As the only thing that proved sufficient.
The one for someone who’s tired of being strong about it.
Clear Love for Confused Parents
Who it’s for
Christian parents loving a child through sexual identity confusion, and trying to hold onto both the relationship and their faith at the same time.
What it is
Eight steps. Practical and honest.
This isn’t a toolkit for fixing your child. Andrew is clear about that from the start. What it is: a guide for the parent, their own transformation, their own re-grounding in mercy and truth.
The argument is quiet but firm: the best thing you can do for your child is become someone who loves from a stable place. Not from fear. Not from pressure. Not from grief that has nowhere to go.
Clear Love shows you how to get there.
The one for the parent who is holding it together in public and falling apart in private.